Simply Jaimie

On Sage's thirteenth birthday, her best friend is struck and killed by a drunk driver while walking to Sage's house. In an instant, Sage's world is forever changed. Alongside her grief, she carries an overwhelming sense of guilt, wondering if things might have been different had she not insisted her best friend spend the entire day with her. All the Blues in the Sky is not a story about getting over loss. Instead, it is a story about learning to move forward with grief. It explores the reality that loss does not simply disappear with time. Rather, grief becomes a companion that can show up unexpectedly—in a memory, a place, a song, or an ordinary moment—and must be carried alongside the joys and challenges of everyday life. One of my favorite moments in the book occurs when Sage tells her aunt that she misses her best friend all the time. Her aunt's response is both beautiful and honest:  "You always will... You will miss her everyday of your life. Sometimes, the ...

COME AS YOU ARE AND ALLOW THE LORD TO USE YOU  "... Go, and the Lord be with thee. And Samuel armed David with his armour, and he put an helmet of brass upon his head; also he armed him with a coat of mail. And David girded his sword upon his armour, and he assayed to go; for he had not proved it. And David said unto Saul, I cannot go with these; for I have not proved them. And David put them off him. And he took his staff in his hand, and chose him five smooth stones out of the brook, and put them in a shepherd's bag which he had, even in a scrip; and his sling was in his hand: and he drew near to the Philistine." 1 Samuel 17: 37-40 One of the things I love most about David's story is that he didn't try to become someone else before the Lord could use him. When David arrived at the battlefield, he wasn't a soldier. He wasn't trained in warfare. He wasn't the biggest, strongest, or most experienced man in Israel. In fact, Saul tried to solve that probl...

There are some books that tell a story, and there are other books that invite readers to see themselves as part of a much larger story. Across So Many Seas by Ruth Behar is one of those books. As parents, we often want our children to understand where they came from and to feel connected to the generations who came before them. Yet it can be difficult for children to grasp that their story did not begin with them. It is part of a chain of people, places, sacrifices, and experiences stretching back through time. This is one of the reasons I chose to spotlight Across So Many Seas . Spanning more than five hundred years, the novel follows four girls from the same family as they navigate life in different countries, cultures, and time periods. Beginning in Spain during the expulsion of the Jews in 1492 and continuing through Turkey, Cuba, and the United States, each generation carries forward pieces of the family's story while adding a chapter of her own. What I love most about this b...

 One of my favorite places to find family history inspiration is the children's section of the library. Every week, I come home with a stack of books, hoping to discover stories that spark conversations about family, identity, memories, traditions, and the people who have shaped our lives. As a family historian, I am always looking for books that help children connect with their own story. Some books inspire meaningful conversations. Some introduce important family history concepts. Others are simply wonderful stories that help children see themselves and their families in new ways. That's what inspired this new series: Library Roundup: Buy, Borrow, or Leave on the Shelf . In each roundup, I'll share recent library reads and give my verdict about whether I would: buy, borrow again from the library , or leave on the shelf next time . Along the way, I'll highlight the family history themes, discussion opportunities, and activities that each book might inspire. Whether yo...

 One of my favorite places to find family history inspiration is the children's section of the library. Every week, I come home with a stack of books, hoping to discover stories that spark conversations about family, identity, memories, traditions, and the people who have shaped our lives. As a family historian, I am always looking for books that help children connect with their own story. Some books inspire meaningful conversations. Some introduce important family history concepts. Others are simply wonderful stories that help children see themselves and their families in new ways. That's what inspired this new series: Library Roundup: Buy, Borrow, or Leave on the Shelf . In each roundup, I'll share recent library reads and give my verdict about whether I would: buy, borrow again from the library , or leave on the shelf next time . Along the way, I'll highlight the family history themes, discussion opportunities, and activities that each book might inspire. Whether yo...

In 1912, my great-great-grandfather Luigi made the long journey from Northern Italy to California. He arrived at Ellis Island on December 8, 1912, alone, with no family traveling beside him and no loved ones waiting to greet him. Although the exact reasons he left Italy are unclear, it is likely that economic hardships played a role. Like many immigrants of his time, he came seeking new opportunities and the hope of a better future. Luigi left behind his wife and three children with the promise that they would join him later. He was not completely alone, however. Relatives who had immigrated earlier had already settled in California and would help him begin a new life. Like many Italians making the journey to America, he carried dreams of a better future—not only for himself, but for generations to come. When I think about the courage it must have taken to leave everything familiar behind, I cannot help but wonder what he carried with him. Certainly he packed clothing and a few persona...